How To Attract Women

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How To Attract Women – Attract Any Woman

How To Attract Women

I'm here to help and empower all men on how to attract women in a healthy way and with ease. This education on how to attract women comes from years of proven research but is only intended to be used in a healthy manner and NOT to be abused.


Let’s start by making it clear that knowing how to attract women has to come from YOUR movement and action. This is lesson is not about sitting around and having women attracted to you with magic or luck. Any man can get women to be attracted them using these proven methods that require actions. Action creates attraction.


These methods on how to attract women come from years of our research and implementation with students. It is very important that you please pay close attention so that this works for you.

Let me ask you 2 questions that pertain to you personally. I want you to answer them for yourself and since no one can hear your answer, you can be completely honest.


1 - Does fear of rejection get in the way of approaching women?


2 - On a scale from 1 to 10, how intense is that fear when approaching women?


Our goal is to make sure that this number decreases significantly after reading this.


Imagine a woman attracted to you as you approach her, simply because you lacked the care of her rejection? Now let’s create this in your life…

After years of consulting and research, the biggest difference for guys who know how to attract women compared to the guys who don’t, has nothing to do with their looks (or what we call their ‘outer game’). It has so much to do with what we call their ‘inner game.’ Let this sink in that you are not broken or that you are not good looking enough. Every man can get any woman, and we have proven this time and time again. If you are good looking, that is fine, keep reading, this will help you.

A Proven Case Study on How To Attract Women Without Fear of Rejection.

When wanting to know how to attract women in real life situations, we created what we call a ‘simple continual belief pattern.’ We created a case study for this. Our case study goal was to get proof that overcoming fear of rejection from simple continual thought patterns, attracted more women with ease. We went into real life ‘attraction sessions’ where we asked each student to create specific but simple ‘continual thought patterns’ when approaching women.  For example, we made students think to themselves – ‘if she rejects me, it is her loss and that girl over there’s gain.’ 40% of the time ‘that girl over there’ became theirs. 60% of the time when she does reject them, don’t waste someone else’s good mistake, learn from it. Lose the fear of rejection and adapt for the next girl. Before you write down your continual thought pattern, continue reading because there is more to this to be successful.


These continual thought patterns over time formed a belief pattern about themselves and their approach. This eventually created very powerful parts of the ‘inner game’ needed to know how to attract women. We had them continue to work on their ‘inner game’ because confidence is a muscle that consistently needs to be worked out. Let’s be clear that forming the ‘continual belief pattern’ needs to be positive energy. This needs to be a win-win for the woman and yourself, otherwise this continual belief pattern will turn from confidence to arrogance and you won’t attract anyone with that energy.

I discovered a “loophole” in female psychology that allows me to know (and secretly influence) how she feels about me before I make my move. This changes everything. Discover it here for yourself for free.

The great thing about knowing how to attract women is that the instant you adapt and exhibit attractive cues, they respond instantly. Let’s say your continual thought pattern was ‘if she rejects me, it is her loss and that girl over there’s gain,’ the first woman did reject you. The second woman that you go up to, will feel that you exhibit confidence by simply lacking the care of rejection. Imagine that? Well, it’s very effective, and is proven with application.

If you are rejected, know that most of time it is not you. Women love sex and experience more physical pleasure from sex than men. So when we are rejected, don’t take it personal and here is why…

There is a problem that is unique to women and it does not exist for men. Most women are scared of being judged by society for their sexual behaviors. For them, it’s a huge objection to have sex right away. Acknowledging this conflict that they struggle with, is such a great advantage for you and most men aren’t even aware that it exists


Women are careful to not make the wrong move to have sex as often as we do. Instead what women do is what’s called “Test & Invest.”

Are You A Woman’s Test or Investment?

Part of a woman’s rejection contains her formula to ‘Test & Invest.’ Whether they consciously know it or not, women have a limited amount of time to mate, and so by nature (biologically), they are always searching for best guy possible. To do this they will test several men at once and then pick one guy to invest her energy in. Often this testing happens before she even hooks up with him.

Sometimes we fall under this rejection process that women go through. However, just knowing this problem makes it easier when we get rejected. Once, I knew this, my confidence just going up to a woman, got better and better. 

In fact, at times I welcomed the rejection to keep reminding me that every situation is different and that it is my job to explore and enjoy those different situations. It could keep me prepared for the next girl … It keeps me having fun with it.


Knowledge is key, and with enough experience applying that knowledge, it will open locked doors to rooms of solutions. So, once I know I’m the test, the first thing that I do, and always suggest, is never act like you are the ‘test.’ Start by not acting that you are too interested in her. Once you are baited, don’t act like the bait, that will turn the attraction against you.


Loath in the baiting…Hell, tell yourself over and over again that you have 3 more girls to talk to. Do whatever it takes.

Real Life Examples on How To Attract Women – Static vs Dynamic

Here are the best real life examples and methods to master your ‘inner-game.’


Let’s take real life situations on how to attract women to you. These situations are usually either going to be Static or Dynamic.


Static situations are where you both are in a place for an extended period of time. In Static situations there’s no rush and very little movement. Static situations are; in cafe’s waiting for your coffee, shopping at the Bookstore, studying at the Library, places during your lunch break (and she is clearly on her break as well), bus stops, etc.

Dynamic situations are where you both are in a place for a short amount of time and there is a lot of movement but with little time to create an interaction. Dynamic situations are; leaving the store and walking past her, in-line at the checkout, passing by her at the mall, jogging past her, at the bar, etc.

In static situations, it’s best to use a situation comment or question to start a conversation. Notice what she is doing or focusing on, and ask her a question about it, or make a comment. It’s simple. Make the comment or question the same way you would your new best friend. Your goal is to establish an interaction from your comfortable comments or questions. The established interaction will then create attraction by following these steps.

Do not say anything that is too direct (e.g. telling her she’s beautiful and you want to take her to dinner tomorrow), it will come off too intense and socially awkward and you will lose the opportunity for the attraction element. This is not how to attract women to you. If you are going to compliment her, make it genuine, light, tasteful, and with a relaxed tonality in your voice.


How To Attract Women In Static Situations


Here is how to attract women to you in static situations. After your comment or question, you have to establish the interaction between you two. If you do not, then chances are you missed the step where I said that you need to make the comment or question the same way you would your new best friend.

If you did establish the interaction and the conversation is flowing, it’s now time for the attraction element. What works effectively is your honest expressive attraction element. Stop, smile (look away if you have to), and say something completely honest to her.

Honesty to a stranger creates attraction?

We are talking about how to attract women. You are not a woman so this may not make sense to you, but keep listening. In our case studies with our students, we tell them to create a phrase that demonstrates an honest expressive attraction element.

Here is an example ‘I am just going to try this and be completely honest, _____ (include attraction element in action). Often this can be something simple such as ‘Can I call you sometime for coffee or lunch?’ or ‘Can I take you out sometime?’ Remember to have those continual thought patterns running on all cylinders. If they start to come naturally then have formed into belief patterns. Remember to make it a win-win for you both, be positive with your energy.

How To Attract Women In Dynamic Situations

For me, Dynamic situations are my favorite, because it can create massive attraction in a short period of time. These more often form powerful relationships whether short term dating or longer.

Attraction in Dynamic situations is almost never done in a way that women actually enjoy. With a short window to create an established interaction, you should go direct with passion, intense focus, and an extremely warm attitude. “Wow, it’s definitely the way you wear that dress, something about it…about you, whats your name?” As long as it conveys sexual intention, but is also socially acceptable to say, then you will create massive attraction.

Remember to be light and positive. Remember your thought patterns. Remember a how woman’s struggle with acceptance of sexual behaviors can be a barrier or an opening. Remember all of the proven methods here on how to attract woman and you will be very effective.

Now, after reading this, on a scale from 1 to 10 how intense would your fear be when approaching women?