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10 FREE Tips from Professional Pick Up Artist — How To Pick Up Women

You found this site because you are in the same situation the majority of men are in with women.  It’s a situation no man wants to be in—the inability to meet and attract confident women.  If you are anything like the way I use to be, then not attracting women into your life is starting to become a serious problem.

For many men, not having the ability to attract women turns into a self-fulfilled prophecy.  Women agree that confidence is the major trait they are attracted to in men.  So your inability to attract women could be costing you your confidence and this in turn is making you appear less attractive in the eyes of women.

10 FREE Tips from Professional Pick Up Artist — How To Pick Up Women

The confidence issue has other issues attached to it…  Women are instinctively more attracted to men that attract other women.  Basically, confidence compounds attraction women have towards a man.  A high percentage of women desire only one man, and it’s usually the man other women are attracted to—the man with the most options.  So, more women want to be with you simply because their female counterparts think you’re attractive.


Men that have many women attracted to them are in what relationship experts call an “abundance state of mind”.  Men with options have more confidence which inevitably leads to a non-desperate and clingy attitude.  Women find these qualities attractive, and more importantly, challenging.  A man’s logic then comes down to: “Why should I choose to be with you instead of one of these other women?”  This mentality drives women crazy!  We all want what we can’t have!


A “scarcity state of mind” happens to men that have few or no women attracted to them.  A “scarcity state of mind” makes men desperate and willing to do anything to make a woman happy.  And a desperate man is a lonely man.  Confident women have no us for them.  Clingy men are pushovers, and more importantly, not a challenge!


The 1973 song called “Some Guys Have All The Luck”, written by the Persuaders, has a logical explanation.  It’s the law of attraction spelt out for us in a song.  Men with an abundant supply of women are more attractive to a woman.  That’s why, according to the song, some guys have all the luck and some guys have all the pain.


The good news is that men can learn the skills necessary to become more attractive to women.  I know because women were never attracted to me.  Ever since I was a teen I’ve made it my personal mission.  Women use to think I was just a loser.  When I was younger I was in amazing shape, polite, friendly, and shy, had good hygiene and morals, believed in love, commitment, loyalty and relationships.  Simply put, I was just a really nice guy.  If there is one thing I’ve learned, women have no interest in nice guys.  Ever since I could remember it has always been the jerks getting the beautiful women.


This caused me to go through an angry phase in my life because I was NOT getting what I wanted out of life or out of my relationships with women.  I was always the guy getting the girls I really didn’t want, and it wasn’t many girls at that.  I didn’t even kiss a girl until I was 17!


My life dealing with women didn’t change until I started getting into online dating.  The year was 2005.  At first I was a dud.  I had no idea how to get women interested in my profile.  I couldn’t even get a response, not even from voluptuous women!  There came a point when I decided it was obviously the profile I had written that didn’t interest women.  After all, I know I’m interesting.  So I sat down and put some time into a new profile.  After I completed my new and improved profile, I had no idea that I had just created a masterpiece that would change my interaction with women forever.  The replies I started getting from women was going through the roof.  I had to put together a spreadsheet to keep track of all the girl’s names and numbers I was getting.  I started getting really comfortable with women because of all the dates I was going on.  And of course I was getting “lucky” here and there too.


But my major life changes with women didn’t start until a few years later.  Before I saw the light, my relationships where always with women I wasn’t really attracted to.  Finally, when I was 36, I came to the conclusion that there had to be a logical explanation of why some guys were getting so “lucky” with women.


I just moved into my new apartment downtown and I was single.  One night my buddy Brandon calls me up.  A pit bull is the best definition I can give of this guy.  He’s short and jacked!  He smokes like a sailor and is always short of breath because he has respiratory problems.  He can be quite rude and rarely treats women with respect.  He goes on to tell me that he nailed 16 different girls in the last month and over 300 girls in his life!  What I found even more perplexing was the things he said to these girls to get them back to his place and into bed with him.  It was stupid shit, and I couldn’t even believe women gave him the time of day.  He got one girl home just because he made her laugh with a joke he got out of a movie.  “What has two thumbs and likes blow jobs?”  As he points to himself with his two thumbs, “This guy right here!”


He went on to explain that it didn’t matter what you said.  The only thing that was important was that you made the girl laugh and gave them some excuse to come back to your place.  I told him he should write a book called “101 Ways To Get A Woman To Come Home With You After You Just Met Her!”  He told me other people had told him to write a book too.  But don’t hold your breath…


One pickup line he told a girl was that he raised abandoned puppies.  The girl of course was putty in his hand and she wanted to go back to his place to see them.  Of course when they got back to his place there were no puppies, but at that point it didn’t matter.  He had her clothes off and bent over faster than she could say blow job.


These crazy stories are what got me asking questions about how a woman’s mind works.  How do some guys get women out of their panties so fast and effortlessly?  And why are other guys, wealthy, successful, fit, and the rest of it, getting no action all?  What are these guys doing?  Brandon fits anything but the typical profile of what women say they want.  However, Brandon did have one character trait I knew even the most intelligent women couldn’t resist…  He’s a bad boy.  Why do women love bad asses?


I started searching Google for “pickup lines” to see what I could find.  Tons of information products started coming up.  Information products created for men to help us pickup and meet beautiful women.  I decided to buy one to see what it was all about.  The first product I bought was alright, but the guy didn’t explain why he was doing some of the things he was doing.  He was just doing it because he knew it worked.  Some of his strategies worked, but others didn’t work at all for me.  I knew I still didn’t have the whole picture.  But I still noticed I was gaining more confidence with woman just by having some guidelines to follow with women.


A few weeks later I get an email from this guy telling me about this guy who is a professional relationship dynamics expert with women.  This guy started talking about stuff that really made sense to me.  Really easy stuff like body language and eye queues that any guy can apply.


To make a long story short, after applying some of his techniques, my sex life went to the next level.  I started to understand how to make women more attracted to me.  Did you follow that?  I was starting to understand how to MAKE women more attracted to me.  I just applied a few simple strategies I had learned.


I was finally in, what he called, the “abundance state of mind” mentality.  My attitude and state of mind changed towards women.  More importantly, my beliefs changed.  Today I have numerous relationships with women.  Now I’m doing things in my relationships with women I never thought possible.


You can turn your situation around with women.  You don’t have to be rich.  You don’t need an amazing physique.  You don’t need to be the best looking guy in the world.  You don’t even have be employed.  Take it from someone who knows.  I don’t have a job or money and I drive a mini-van that’s breaking down.  Yet I have more women in my life than I can handle.


My material affairs have little to do with my success with women.  My buddy Brandon is in the same predicament as me.  We’re almost 40 and neither of us is established and we have very little money.  The bottom line is: Confident men get women and wussy men get to go home and jerk off!  Women are craving alpha type men in today’s society.  The woman’s rights  movement has played a major roll in this shift that has caused many men to become wussies, but that’s another topic of discussion.


Women find men that constantly talk about all their “stuff” and success boring.  A woman’s imagination is the most erotic part of her being.  If you want to get her interested in you have to get her imagination going.  That’s what my buddy Brandon did with his ridiculous stories and jokes.  He understands the secret turn on switch most men don’t even know women have.  Women want men to seduce them into getting them to do what you want.  And her imagination is the key to seducing her.


After studying this new world of the woman’s psyche my dating experiences starting becoming sexual experiences more often.  During the summer I met a 27 year old cutie online and we went on a date.  I tested out a couple of strategies I had learned.  Just some body language moves and a “feels” like a multiple dates trick.  A couple hours later I’m at her apartment in bed with her.  As she’s taking off her panties with a guilty look in her eyes she says “You know…  You really shouldn’t have sex on the first date.”  Then her panties land on the floor!


That was a pivotal moment for me because I was finally gaining control of my relationships with women.  Some people may find it sad that a moment like that meant so much to me.  That moment just wasn’t about seducing a young woman out of her panties.  It showed me that I could get what I want when I put my mind to it—which is also another trait women find attractive in men by the way.


Majority of my life I couldn’t figure out how to attract women.  In my younger years there was this one girl I always wanted, but she had already put me in the friends zone.  We hadn’t seen each other in years and she found my profile on an online dating website.  She asked me to come over to hangout, but she was totally not into me.


Several years later she discovers that I’m friends with a female acquaintance of hers that just so happens to like me.  And if there is one thing experience has taught me about women is that they can’t resist a man other women are attracted to.


By the time this girl got around to getting interested in me I had been reading all kinds of woman seduction guides.  The next time we got together things went exactly the way I wanted them to go.  Understanding a woman’s mind can get you out of the friend zone with her.  Even if you’ve known her for years and she’s never been interested in you before.


So, do some guys get all the luck?  Let the truth be told, it takes more than luck to get lucky with women.  There’s a method to the female mind of madness.  Understanding what attracts women is all you need to know to make your relationships amazingly better.


I solved many of my internal personal problems by getting what I wanted out of my relationships with women.  It has improved my confidence, my happiness, and even my relationships with family and friends.  So, if you’re not happy with your “woman situation”, then do something about it!  So do something about it today!  Women will love you for it!